Quiet...

I know it seems as if I have been quiet and maybe I have. Nothing specific going on, but I have been busy and not in the mood to type as much as I wish.  I have lots of things going on and things I feel the need to do or I am obligated to do...and when all of that is on my plate, I often let the want to do items go by the wayside.  My blog, being one of them...
The kids are both in full swing of school.  I am in turn, in full swing. I am much more active at Zach's school, but that isn't for the fact I don't adore Erin's preschool. It is awesome and for any person moving to this area with preschool age kiddos, I would pound it into your head that you must send your child there.  But, I haven't gotten involved with as much of the parent activities. I have made a ton of friends through that little preschool and for that I am super thankful.  I attend all that I can, but I tend to spend much more time giving back to Zach's school.  Maybe because I pay for one and not the other, not sure how my mind has processed it, but it is how seems to have turned out whatever the cause.
She is now going 4 days a week, all at one school.  Last year she split between two schools and it was a headache.  I never got the good vibe from the other school and made no friends there.  She is at school Tuesday thru Friday and stays all day from 9-3 on Tue/Thr.  She loves it and I love her teachers.  I feel so lucky to have a place like that for her.
While she is busy there I take those long days to get busy myself.  On Tuesday I am mainly at Zach's school, all day.  I volunteer in his class in the afternoon and in the AM I do work in the teacher workroom, library and also am working with the school social worker.  I love it, I feel busy, purposeful and I get to spy a bit on him too. :)  Trying to make Thursday my appointment day and day to get other things done that are not kid friendly...when in doubt, I will be back at his school too, it seems to be working out that way now.  Wed/Fri I am trying to be at the gym, but wondering if my Y membership is going to continue. When the weather cools down, as it has been in the 90's and 80's the last few days, I find myself always wanting to go for a long walk and not be in the gym.  The amount of money I spend on my membership could also go toward my new wish item...I showed Brandon at the BX today.  :)
We also switched all of Zach's therapies...it was time and needed to be done, but a long process and as always never easy.  I really like the fact that all three therapies are in one place...OT, Speech and ABA.  He goes to a place in Schertz, so closer to our house, the base, etc.  He will go Tue-Fri after school from 3-4.  So, we won't have late nights or not be able to do other things because his therapy is right after school and only one hour long.  It does mean I have to get him early from school almost every day and shuttle back and forth to get both kids at different places at very close times, but it is worth it to have him see people that all work together.  Share information and seem to be more in tune with things I want to work on with him. So far he likes it too. Monday and Wednesday nights he has soccer, Erin also has it on Wednesday after him...LONG night. :)  Tuesday night Zach goes to a social group at a local middle school from 6-7.  Great thing we got him into this year and it is run through the school district.  So...we are busy.  He is busy.  My days are busier than I think most people realize...stay at home mom is not a very accurate term.  But, it is all for the greater good and I am willing to do the work.  He is my job right now and I am working!
The sad part is our time here is drawing to an end.  By next June we will be gone...we should get official word soon to where Brandon got selected for school, but we are pretty sure we know.  It was a top choice and a place we are excited about, but with all things there is good and bad.  If it is the place we think, Brandon has to be there mid May. The kids aren't done with school until May 25th.  I will most likely let the movers take our stuff in early-mid may and stay back with the kids to let them finish school.  It isn't ideal, but I know they deserve to finish their year here and I deserve it too.  I love it here.  They love it here. Heck we want to move back and retire here when we are done...moving won't be easy no matter where we go next.  So as I look at the calendar and know that there isn't another September in Cibolo
So I will keep being busy, living in the moment, trying not to focus on May, but now.  Here comes October, ready or not. ;)